i am reminiscing my feeling of being engaged to F after saw our celebrities got hitched. its really a sweet moment. i was feeling all sweet and joyous. a sudden change of how people acted especially with "those" questions.but thats ok. i still felt the sweetness moment.
Still remember how nervous i was going out of the room, waiting for F mother to sheath me the ring.i had 2 rings back then.but i was so sad that another ring got stolen. really miss it =(
when it came to get the wedding plan started, almost every sweetness came to an end. i felt tensed and emotional, being an extra drama queen. i make scene with F every time we had a discussion.being the cool ones, F every time saved me ;p u r my hero, obviously.
however, being a fiance/fiancée , doesnt permitted ur other half to do what he/she likes regardless of your opinion. or ordering you to do things. respect is the key word. respect ur fiance/fiancee, respect his/her family opinion as far as you have to respect your family word of advices.
during this stage, everyone will trying to voice out their imagination about the wedding. dun blame others, they are getting excited as u are!!!!remember dun pull them down. take whatever necessary and drop the unimportant ones.never be rude to them.
remember to hold on to someone alot wiser. this is crucial. it maybe your bestie, your sister, SIL or your mother. who are so unbiased not easily panic and always come with the GOOD advice. never turn to a person who will never pass the positivity into you.it will added the pressure.
to all of you best of luck!!
to my ex-fiance, owh im still in love with you ^-^