be herself.self love.and alot of it.

I was attending my husband-get-together with his old friends last weekend. It was a simple barbeque night with drinks and kids running around, food and water spill all over. Shit happened. When the host shouting to their daughter and calling all the kids who had entered a bedroom. I was dazed because I never did that no matter how infuriated I was.  Must hold back. This is a gathering and everybody is here. Hallo, you are the one who invited us, remember? Why you start that awkward moment and maybe a moment of starting another brawl with your best friend a.k .a the other kid's parent? I object your act. And yes I am judging you now. Although it wasn't my children involved, I have this motherly feeling towards the kids. You shouted at them in the middle of the event, you are embarrassed them, scared them and you did not, at all respect them. I was once read, treat your children the same as you treat the adult. Oh my God, did you shout at the adult whos make ...

In relations of my entry here , i would like to continue with part two of this pungent topic. Upon posting my entry 4 years back, i received countless emails from mommies asking me who was i reffered too, because they can relate to this person, if it bound to be the same person. In my defence, i am sharing all the information for parent in my neighbourhood so that they could expect the unexpected. Not that i want to deprecate anybody. My aim here is to help parent in need. I (or we) have first time experience towards finding the right babysitter I believe. For me, it was toughest and frustration. I have to pull myself to survive. Finding the right babysitter is a nightmare for me, and ecspecially first time mom to endure this. It is a tiring process. and finally, when you find the babysitter, after a while she's not the one anymore hehe. truth hurt. So what to expect when you choose a particular babysitter? 1) You talk to her. Make time to talk a no sweat conve...