yesterday was quite chaotic domestically.
first, Isa just slept, about 10 minutes when I picked him up from the playschool. It was 12.30 pm. he was a bit cranky when we arrived home, so I assumed he wants to sleep.
so I put him to sleep until 40 minutes later he changed his mind.get up and ready to play. he was just tossing and drinking his milk in 40 minutes.
His big brother, Ali was asleep.
an hour later his brother woke up. around 2.30 pm.
Isa started being cranky again. "Please be still and calm," I told myself. at least wait for another hour to make sure Isa IS REALLY SLEEPYYYY.
but his crankiness is making me half insane.
so at 3pm, where his whining was mounting and nothing could comfort him, I try to put him to lalaland again.
Again, after 10 minutes he gets up and refused to sleep.
OH MY GOD. I was crying inside. YOU want to SLEEP or NOT YOUNG MAN???
I lost all my energy to my 1.5 years baby.
How am I going to deal with this little human mummies??
PATIENCE is of course number one. if you do not have ones, go find one before you become a mother. because only with patience you could deal with this situation. with my "angelic" boys, I always told myself to hold myself in whatever wrongdoing is happening. there is always three sides of the story, my story, their story, and the truth, right?
so whenever things happened always make sure that first, your kids do not have any injuries and only then you figure out what to do with the children.
first, Isa just slept, about 10 minutes when I picked him up from the playschool. It was 12.30 pm. he was a bit cranky when we arrived home, so I assumed he wants to sleep.
so I put him to sleep until 40 minutes later he changed his mind.get up and ready to play. he was just tossing and drinking his milk in 40 minutes.
His big brother, Ali was asleep.
an hour later his brother woke up. around 2.30 pm.
Isa started being cranky again. "Please be still and calm," I told myself. at least wait for another hour to make sure Isa IS REALLY SLEEPYYYY.
but his crankiness is making me half insane.
so at 3pm, where his whining was mounting and nothing could comfort him, I try to put him to lalaland again.
Again, after 10 minutes he gets up and refused to sleep.
OH MY GOD. I was crying inside. YOU want to SLEEP or NOT YOUNG MAN???
I lost all my energy to my 1.5 years baby.
How am I going to deal with this little human mummies??
PATIENCE is of course number one. if you do not have ones, go find one before you become a mother. because only with patience you could deal with this situation. with my "angelic" boys, I always told myself to hold myself in whatever wrongdoing is happening. there is always three sides of the story, my story, their story, and the truth, right?
so whenever things happened always make sure that first, your kids do not have any injuries and only then you figure out what to do with the children.
second, PUT YOUR GADGET AWAY. take only emergency call and message. It is hard I know. but sometimes or most of the time, they need your attention. they need eye-to-eye connection. play with them, speak with them, read with them and even my 5 years old boy ask me to sleep with him.
if you can't win them, become one of them 😁😁
that's how its work, the world revolve around only them right? HAHAHA.
pretty easy.
See you in the next post.
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just say it allies!!!