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Dealing with toddler


ramadhan has making long way leaving us..and syawal is following it too.life went soo fast huh? i still remember how i had to forced myself to pray terawikh and recite Al- Quran.

 let make peace, and feel the now ;p 

 such us our deep love?

 yeah my boy! that little man take up such a massive place in my life. He is currently VERY VERY activate. one time during the *bedtimes chatting , he said "mummy, i don't want to sleep." what do you mean son? it was past 10 pm and your were still energised?what you made of? could gimme some?

 *(and about the bedtime story..i never read to him..i know its sound bad but i do talk to him and doing some old jokes or at least sing his fave song)

 handling toddler like him take a lot of patience. like if you are now having 1000kg of patience, you have to find another 10000000 kg!! its like digging moreeee and moreee good vibes in you HAHA sometimes you just have to make peace with your inner self, that toddler are definitely a GOD sent for positive reason - to make a better you.

 talking to them, especially during tantrum moment is worst. it took another level of YOURSELF to do so.first they wont listen and second they are ALWAYS RIGHT. if their behaviour is wrong, then it is OUR fault.like why do we have chocolate and ice cream in the freezer when the fact it CANNOT be eaten all time?so the bestest way is don't buy chocolate and ice cream (OUR fault) so that couldn't lead to their fault?

 its a VERY COMPLICATED situation -___-"

 like i said earlier, toddler is a GOD sent for big reason -__-''''

 when you talk to them, sometimes they just choose to shut you down. this is a reallllyyy another stressful moment. You properly ask him to pick up that lying toys, he just passed by and ride his bicycle. WHYYYYYYYYYYYY..so my option here is to be strict and repeat. My son normally will do after i repeated about 30 times.no less.until you feel like you live for no other reason haha.

 however, being a parent has change a whole perspective on how we look. we tend to have a loopholes here and there, but in the end, we are trying our very best.. 


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